Quirky Wallpaper

So I have recently decided I am really into wallpaper these days.  Growing up, I always found wallpaper really dowdy and old, but lately I’ve seen a lot of interiors that have really cool wallpapers that really pop and look really dramatic.  They’re fun and quirky (just like ME – hah!)  I think for me the key is to exercise a little restraint – small surface areas and otherwise simple decor.  Don’t overdo or it’ll look like a Where’s Waldo book vomited all over your walls.  I WILL have some sweet wallpaper in my house some day.

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Attitude Adjustment

It has been one of my New Year’s resolutions to have a good attitude about everything.  Job, singleness, life.  I’m not going to lie, it’s a constant struggle for me.  Maybe it’s because my job is boring (dangit, self, adjust the attitude).  But really, I’m sure it’s natural for most people to focus on the things that are less than ideal instead of everything good you have going for you.  But you really HAVE to focus on the good things or you’re just perpetuating your unhappiness (AND no one will want to hang out with you – it’s a vicious cycle).

I was whining via text message to my good friend (you know who you are – thanks ladyfrand) and also checking out all my favorite blogs, and I came across this post, on one of my favorite blogs, where she asked all her readers to list three things that they’re thankful for.

So in the spirit of appreciation and not whininess, I present you with my appreciated items, as of right this second:

1.  That I have some wonderfully funny, witty, and supportive girlfriends.

2.  The health and safety of my family.

3.  Red wine (please don’t send me to the Betty Ford).

4.  Weekends when you can lay in bed and read while it’s raining (maybe with red wine – look at that – things overlap) and not have to go anywhere.

5.  Duck Dynasty – this deserves a whole separate post, but it’s such an amazing, hilarious, genuine (tv) show.  A half hour attitude adjustment if I ever had one.  Don’t judge me (love it SO much).  I do own camo, but I’m still a cityfolk.

Look at that, more than three happy things, and those just came off the top of my head.  Lesson learned.

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Fancy Drinking

I’ve recently become obsessed with the idea of having a bar cart.  Particularly of the vintage variety even though I tend toward more modern.  Usually I’m more of a fan of having things put away in drawers and cabinets to hide clutter and make everything more sleek, but booze is pretty, right?  There are so many options and so many ways to style them – it’s really a chance to show off your personality and your style.

And these carts?  I NEED one.

Here is a great post about how to set up your bar cart.  Personally, mine will have a gorgeous shaker, Saint Germaine, these champagne flutes which I got for Christmas, and a unique decanter.

I mean, how happy would you be if you arrived home to this everyday???

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Lust List: Art Deco Earrings

For my second installment of the Lust List, I bring you some sweet 20′s and 30′s -inspired earrings that are trending right now (sorry for using the term “trending”).  I’ve always been a fan of art deco – I find it fun, funky, and hip but very chic at the same time.  We’ve got some Gatsby going on here (very excited for the upcoming Baz Luhrmann remake by the way), inspired by stained glass windows, geometric shapes, swanky colors (yes, colors can be swanky), and metallic accents.  I think all of these would be a great pop to a little black dress or an otherwise simple outfit.
Lust List: Art Deco Earrings

Ippolita brown earrings
saksfifthavenue.com

Tear drop earrings
boutique1.com

Ca lou
boutique1.com

Rachel zoe jewelry
bergdorfgoodman.com

Fiona Paxton art deco jewelry
$145 - glam-net.com

A v max jewelry
saksfifthavenue.com

Lokalwear art deco jewelry
$59 - ourstyle.hu

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Everyone Loves Lunacy

I’m pretty much a looney person – so this is of course right up my alley.

There is nothing that will make you feel worse about bitching (in your head) about flying coach overseas (i.e. Slum Class, according to Hugh Grant’s character in the Bridget Jones Diaries (very academic, yes, I know…)) than reading a (true) story about really roughing it.   It slaps a little perspective into ya.

I got this book, the Lunatic Express, by Carl Hoffman, on recommendation from my sister (hey girl, haaaay!) after talking to a stranger on the airplane (we’re so related).  Hoffman is a journalist who started ruminating on the difference between the way that we, rich people (even if you don’t think you’re rich, if you have the interwebs and free time and are reading this … you’re rich), travel – for fun, for vacation, to become “worldly” – versus those that live in third world and developing countries that risk their lives on a daily basis just to get to work to make a few dollars a month, to meet their families in remote villages, to lead their day-to-day lives.

These journeys of the “others” are fairly undocumented, though they are dangerous and people die on a daily basis.  We don’t think about travel as being functional.  But every day, people in South America, India, Bangladesh, everywhere, are traveling in squalor, dozens of hours on end, just to get somewhere.  Boats and trains are so overcrowded that people are physically ejected.  Planes that don’t have safety regulations, seat belts, functioning towers, crash and kill hundreds.  And it’s barely a blip on the radar of the developed world.

Trains in India {photo credit}

Hoffman chose to travel around the world taking all of the most dangerous forms of transportation.  Not traveling to see, but traveling just to move.  He experienced the worst possible conditions – sleeping on planks in the belly of rusty boats with roaches crawling all over him, rickety buses hurtling through the jungles in South America, no bathrooms or running water to be found, overcrowding to the point of being on top of another human being.  Yet his journeys show an incredible perspective on humanity.  Everywhere he went, he was a celebrity.  People knew he was foreign, different, not versed in the ways of survival in a different realm of living… and they took care of him.  People that made the equivalent of a few US dollars a month bought him food, drinks, and opened their (meager) homes.  It is amazing thing to read about such poverty, and yet such giving.

Part of Hoffman’s journey was to run, to escape from everything that was his life, to be isolated.  Yet, he found that the further he ran into the depths of the third world, the jungles, the deserts, and the more he tried to disconnect, the more he felt connected to humanity, the more he understood that he was a part of something larger.  And while these interactions and relationships were quickly forged and fleeting, they are what makes us human – our relationships, our people.   It really gives you a new perspective on travel.  I like to think that I’m open-minded and into experiencing something that is real.  But…I stay in nice hotels, eat nice food, don’t drink the water in countries where the CDC says not to drink the water.  I’m sheltered.  I’ve never roughed it a day in my life.  You think you are seeing the world, but you’re only seeing what makes you comfortable, what you want to see.  I definitely recommend this book to give you a shiny gritty new, rugged, *down to earth* perspective.

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Lust List: Colorblock Bags

Welcome to the first installment of what (I hope) will be a weekly feature, inspired by my favorite blogger, Heather (who also named this column – I won’t even pretend I’m as good as her at alliteration – love you ladyfrand!); basically, all the great shit that I want to buy out there on the interwebs that I can’t/should not afford!!  I gave up online shopping for Lent, but just like marriage, you can look, you just can’t touch (email me for more iron-clad marriage advice and just call me Dr. Phil).

I’m a total bag lady, so I find it appropriate that first lustful installment would be bags (it just occurred to me that it’s  incredibly inappropriate to be talking about lust (in an encouraging way) during Lent…sorry…).  But…BAGS!  Be still my heart.  I’d just die for one of the Fendi ones.  And if I ever spend that much money on a bag, someone go ahead and kill me (and use the life insurance money to pay off the credit card bill).  Luckily, Queen Diane (Von Furstenberg) has some pretty great, fun alternatives.  ANYWAYS, I wear a lot of black and gray to work, so I really love these statement colorblock bags.  They’re multi-color, but I think paired with the right outfits and styling, these can act as neutrals.  Come on Easter, Mama needs a new pair of shoes awesome work bag!
Lust List: Colorblock Totes

Diane von furstenberg bag
neimanmarcus.com

Fendi tote bag
neimanmarcus.com

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The Art of Traveling Alone

“It seemed an advantage to be traveling alone. Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by whom we are with, we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others…Being closely observed by a companion can inhibit us from observing others; we become taken up with adjusting ourselves to the companion’s questions and remarks, we have to make ourselves seem more normal than is good for our curiosity.”  ― Alain de Botton, The Art of Travel

As you will see from some upcoming posts, I’ve recently returned from vacation in Barcelona and Lisbon.  I met my dear friend and long-time travel buddy in Lisbon, but for four days in Barcelona, I was on my own.  I’ve never traveled alone before (aside from flying alone to meet other people), but this was something I’ve always wanted to do.  The freedom to do absolutely what you want to do at all times was so appealing to me.  I also didn’t want to wait for a boyfriend or work around a friend’s travel schedule – it was my trip, just for me, and I was 100% in charge.

For anyone that is considering traveling alone for the first time, and I highly recommend you do at least once in your life, here are a few tips from my experience:

1.  Go somewhere where you will feel safe and comfortable.

Obviously safety is key.  I wouldn’t recommend running around by yourself in the Middle East or some remote locale (though plenty of people do and are totally fine – I just grew up in more of a bubble where the only place I was allowed to go alone was the library – that’s right, I was nerdy at an early age).  You need to be somewhere where you’re not afraid to walk around in the dark (though, for certain people I know, that would be Dallas, the grocery store, the closet).  You don’t want to feel like you’re going to turn into a pumpkin and have to go hide in the hotel at the first sign of sunset.  Though I don’t speak Catalan, everyone in Barcelona speaks Spanish as well (doi), so my understanding of the language was fairly key.  It would be much scarier had I not been able to speak the language – you’re really putting yourself in the hands of (hopefully) helpful strangers otherwise (which is also not necessarily a bad thing – you do find that people are usually amazingly generous and open to helping you – you allow people to show you their humanity).  Barcelona was the perfect choice because it’s really safe (everyone squawked about the pickpockets, but that’s just a factor of being aware of your surroundings and not being a bumpkin idiot – general life rule – write that one down, guys) and easily navigable.

2.  Be open.

Be open to new experiences, be curious, wander.  I’m super type A.  I LOVE lists.  Like, a lot.  A lot, a lot.  You get it.  BUT, while I like to plan vacations, I think it’s very important to have space in your schedule to explore, wander, and just do whatever.  I think that it’s really important not to be overly scheduled on vacation, or you’ll miss out on the real heart and soul of a place.  Sit in the cafe and have a drink and watch the world go by.  Go down the side streets.  Get lost (don’t worry, I did that tons).  Find hidden gems that aren’t in the guidebook.  They make for amazing pictures.  Stop and listen to the random man with the guitar outside of the museum.  You can, because you don’t have anything else to do.

3.  Talk to strangers.

Sorry Mom, I promise you did raise me better than that.  BUT, unless you want to feel really alone, you’ve got to do it.  It probably sounds counter-intuitive, but I think being alone really is the best way to connect with the world.  You can learn so much about other people and places and hear some pretty incredible stories.

4.  Splurge.

This one may just be personal to my situation, because vacation is very sparse for me and I wanted to really make it worth it.  But I think if you can, it’s very important to be comfortable when traveling by yourself.  Stay in a nice hotel, in a good location.  Go to a nice dinner – if you’re eating alone, make it worth it man!  Rent the audio headsets at the museums (nerd!) – if you don’t have anyone to talk to, you might as well learn something.  Do something that is going to make the trip really memorable – I don’t think you’ll regret it.

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